Coming soon

My blog will be re-appearing soon. Looking forward to my newest adventure on this journey of life.
New physical location, & blog location, new path, new chapter & new love. Positive direction. Positive feelings.

Transition

To all readers, subscribers and followers of Bearcares, we are in a transitional period and some changes are being made to keep this forum up and running,
Thank you for your continued patience, and support of this website, and what it represents.

Bricks

Build your house with bricks of the highest quality, but more importantly is the mortar that holds your bricks in place.

Mortar should be mixed with equal parts of love, compassion, caring, understanding, communication, respect, passion, dedication and just a touch of Cuervo for fun.

Use this mortar recipe to hold your bricks together and your house will always be rock solid and will weather any storm.

For every house is built by someone, but the builder of all things is God.  Hebrews 3:4 

Gods Plan for us may be in front of us, but if we aren't looking all we may see is a brick wall.

Great Big Bear Hugs....Strong foundations, the finest quality bricks and the perfect recipe for mortar are all needed to build up, without fear of a relationship falling down around you

Kindred Spirits

 

The body and soul of any relationship contains two individuals, who come together, to grow as a couple. They say that there is one person for each of us, as our Kindred Spirit, or "soul mate". How do you know when you find that person? Or if you think you have found them, do you know for sure? Do they meet all aspects, as far as your "standards" or "qualifications"? Can two people be together with something missing? Can two become one in perfect harmony, by chance?

Love, honor, cherish, communication, attraction, mutual understanding, respect, trust, forgiveness, sense of humor and quite a few others, are all important in any long term relationship, like a part of a person. The body needs all of its' parts, although it can function without some parts, like a limb, as in a sense of humor, or some organs like one lung or one kidney, as in understanding, you can partially function without. With great difficulty, you can function missing part of your liver if respect is gone. Yet some others are vital for life. If one of these aspects is missing such as communication it is like missing part of the brain, the body may be able to sustain life, but without signals it won't function. Same goes for forgiveness it is a vital organ, like the kidneys. You have two of them, but if the kidneys lose their function, toxins contaminate the entire body, and other systems depend on the kidneys to remove them or those begin to shut down too. Each aspect is necessary, but some are essential.

With the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing. Like the parts of our bodies that we can't live without, our relationship with that one kindred spirit, that special person that is meant to be will never be lost forever. Love has a way of fixing broken hearts, and showing us that the world can be paradise when the two perfect halves join as one.

We humans are an interesting species, we are born to love and be loved, but we have nothing to live for until we find our passion for life when we find someone to die for.

 Complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love being in full accord and of one mind. Philippians 2:2 

GODS' LOVE AND GUIDANCE IN UNITY AND IN LOVE

Bear Hugs, for we search for a Kindred connection in body, mind and soul 

Negative Equity

All of us allow things around us to happen whether negative or positive, either to ourselves, around ourselves or to others. Can we change a lot of it? yes. Do we? Probably not, or not as often as we should. When we allow others to make more emotional withdrawals than deposits we find ourselves with emotional negative equity and we become mired down, like a major financial deficit, it is really tough to rebound or recover from. And all that we inspire to do becomes diluted with self doubt, and a very emotionally drained state, where we are of no help to ourselves or to anyone else.

I have lived this way, for about 75% of the my life. I have known for quite some time that God had a plan for me (Jeremiah 29:11) to endure much pain before I can find happiness or move forward in anyway. As I await His directions I must learn to rise above the storm, in order to find the sunshine. My journey is still underway, but I am beginning to see the sun.

There have been many more withdrawals than deposits into my emotional, spiritual, peacefulness, my joy, my love and caring accounts than deposits. And I don't think I have had more than a dozen transactions with my happiness account, which tells you how long I have struggled to find my rightful happy place. 

I dream of a place where I can live in my dreams. Not just about them. To cherish and celebrate life, not just tolerate or participate in it. To be cherished and celebrated and to live in my harmony, not just have harmony in my music. To find the sunshine and hold on to it with both hands, and to always grab the rainbow after I've danced in its' rain. 

I've always heard that we get out of life what we put into it. This I believe is true. We must remember to have a balance. I have been living and serving in the book of my life with limited transactions, because I was born Gods' servant and have always believed in it is always better to give than to receive. I always wanted to avoid any negative equity and I always believe in paying it forward. 

I have recently become aware of some newly written pages in behind the definitions and the afterword pages. I am so intrigued by these new chapters, that I am giddy as a schoolgirl to begin to explore them. My journey will continue on new adventures in this story of my life.

Maybe it's a sequel or many many chapters of the same story, but wouldn't life be even more amazing, if we all had surprise chapters written in our books, as we continue making deposits to the equity in our lives, and find additional joy and happiness and maybe even an alternate ending? Even the out-takes could be used to enhance our gifts to others and to ourselves.

Some of you may or may not have noticed that this inspirations blog has become the landing page for this website, and some of its' content has been archived. We are currently working on some changes and we appreciate your patience, in this transition. The resources we have always provided for marriage and child advocates are still listed on our resource page with links to other resources.

 This inspirations blog will remain, in hopes of inspiring others in life's ups, downs and all arounds as it has often done. If anyone has a subject or topic request, a prayer request, a comment, a suggestion or question please feel free to contact me. 

For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11

GODS' GRACE AND LOVE IN OUR JOURNEYS THROUGH LIFE TOGETHER

Great Big Bear Hugs for lifes' ups, downs and all arounds